We Need To Focus On The Good Stuff

By E. Brown

After hearing an interview with author, Mike Robbins, I agree — we need to focus more on the good stuff. Life is too short.

It is funny, I was talking about this very same thing last night with a group of friends. We are trained from a young age to find the things that are wrong…

“You mispelled that one word” (forget the fact that the 14 others words were spelled correctly)

“You burned the biscuits” (this was the first time they had made biscuits)

“You always leave the toilet seat up” (when you’ve lived on your own for 10+ years, some habits are hard to break)

And, the list goes on. Sound familiar? It is easier to find fault than to find appreciation.

Another by-product of this is that most people do not know how to accept praise and appreciation. You have seen it before, or maybe experienced it first-hand.

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